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I donaˆ™t wish sound like I have no empathy for ones sweetheart.

I donaˆ™t wish sound like I have no empathy for ones sweetheart.

Life can be tough, especially in light of thwarted dreams, unrealistic expectations, financial instability, flimsy support networks, and run-of-the-mill insecurities. But not everyone deals with things in the same way; and, whether we like it or not, this stuff matters. There are some people who will give up online dating if one email is not returned or give up on relationships just because the last one went bad. Even if this is somewhat aˆ?normal,aˆ? itaˆ™s certainly not a healthy trait. Not for the anxious/moody person, and not for the poor soul who has to be the strong, patient partner. When your boyfriend is unhappy, itaˆ™s only normal to want to pull him out of it, to want to flip a switch in the back of his head to get him from pessimist to optimist. Furthermore, when heaˆ™s at his worst internally, thataˆ™s also when heaˆ™s a terrible boyfriend. He obsesses, stays at home, stews in his own juices, and builds up stories about whataˆ™s wrong in the world that may not accord with reality. Not only that, but such a boyfriend has nothing to give to the relationship because heaˆ™s always dealing with his own mercurial moods.

I think their question, Katie, is good snapshot of the majority of queries I get with this blog: a certain amount of aˆ?Iaˆ™m dissatisfied in my man. Continue reading I donaˆ™t wish sound like I have no empathy for ones sweetheart.